What makes a romance story engaging, and what mistakes should writers avoid?
βCool story, bro.βorβAlright, and?βor evenβDamn, you good? You seem pressed.β Half the time, people say that kinda stuff just to get under your skin. Donβt let 'em. You donβt have to prove anything to anyone whoβs just tryna throw shade. Just keep doing your thing and let them waste their breath.
βCool story, bro.β
or
βAlright, and?β
or even
βDamn, you good? You seem pressed.β
Half the time, people say that kinda stuff just to get under your skin. Donβt let ’em. You donβt have to prove anything to anyone whoβs just tryna throw shade. Just keep doing your thing and let them waste their breath.
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That sucks when someone says stuff like thatβit's never fun. But honestly, how you respond depends on the vibe you want to keep. Here are a few ways you can handle it, depending on your mood and the situation: 1. Stay Cool and Confident Just smile and say something like:"Cool story." or "EveryoneβsRead more
That sucks when someone says stuff like thatβit’s never fun. But honestly, how you respond depends on the vibe you want to keep. Here are a few ways you can handle it, depending on your mood and the situation:
1. Stay Cool and Confident
Just smile and say something like:
“Cool story.” or “Everyoneβs entitled to their opinion.”
That shows youβre unbothered, and it kind of takes the power away from their words.
2. Flip It with Humor
Sometimes joking back lightens the mood and shows you donβt take them seriously:
“Guess Iβm winning at losing, then.”
“Ignorant? I prefer ‘selectively informed’.”
3. Call It Out (If You Feel Like It)
If itβs someone you actually care about or deal with often, you can say:
“Hey, that was kind of harsh. Whatβs up with that?”
It can open a real conversation instead of just a back-and-forth insult thing.
4. Ignore and Walk Away
If theyβre not worth your time, donβt give them your energy. Not everything needs a response.
Silence hits hard sometimes.
5. Protect Your Peace
If itβs constant or starts affecting how you feel about yourself, itβs okay to create some distance or talk to someone you trust. You donβt have to deal with that kind of negativity on your own.
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